In handing out a dozen free roses every August 23 as a way of healing from their pain, the DePedro family began telling parents who have lost a child that “it does get better.” One of my friends told me that at my mom’s funeral and coming from him, it was something that I needed to hear. It was hope that I could cling on to so I could know I’d find a way to move forward.
“The hardest thing we have to tell moms and dads is that it does get better,” Greg DePedro said. “You might not feel fantastic, but you will feel better with time and prayers.”
Dorrie and Greg DePedro, Coatesville Flower Shop owners, are often asked how they came up with the idea of “Lisa’s Roses” and they tell them her legacy is to “do something nice for someone today.” But they ask again how that started. I had to ask that loaded question too for the article.
“Then we take a walk back in time that often starts as a painful memory, but ends bringing joy to our hearts,” Greg DePedro said. His daughter Lisa died five months after she was diagnosed with cancer in 2004.
“It was a very devastating time,” Greg DePedro said. “And then it began – the outpouring of love and support from the community.”